People who choose to build a life with each other often have dreams they share, but they can also have dreams of their own. While both of them might agree on owning a home, having a certain number of children and retiring together, their paths might be very different. One person might want to stay at home with the children, and the other might dream of climbing the corporate ladder. Each one has made a commitment to be happy with their partner, and they must help each other achieve their dreams successfully if they want to be happy.

Helping each other can come in many forms, so money will not necessarily be an issue. One partner generally does make more money, but the other person will often be more supportive in their social life. These types of help are what create an overall successful life, so each of them should be appreciated. This is often not the case, and it usually boils down to who makes the best living outside the home. Arguments about who carries the load in a relationship are one of the fastest ways to destroy it.

Achieving success does not always have to be tied to a career or raising children, so couples should understand there are no real rules. A partner might have dreams of creating beautiful pottery, and they might find they need help gathering tools and materials as well as lessons. Finding the time to practice their hobby is another roadblock where a partner can help them succeed.

Couples who manage to stay together for decades often find they have learned success does not always come in a paycheck. They see that success is often defined by both of them being able to pursue their own dreams, and achieving them is a triumph of their relationship.